I didn't go to any counselor for tips on how to save a marriage. I just pondered over the matter for a few nights, sitting on the porch, observing the
stars in the sky. I asked a few questions to myself - what was the thing that sparked the chemistry between us a year ago? What made our romance bloom in the first
few months of our marriage? Then it struck me. I got my answer! I knew how to save my marriage! Let me share this with you.
For Women...
Cook his favorite dish
Make some coffee for him while he's relaxing
Let him have his time with the guys
Place the morning paper in his
favorite reading corner
Keep his clothes, files, and car key ready when he's preparing for office
For Men...
Get some flowers for her
Call her or send a message through your cell phone from the office once in a while
Help her in doing the dishes after dinner or help her in preparing the
dinner
Surprise her by fixing up her favorite snack
Buy the dress that she's being eying for a long time at the store- that will really please
her
These are the little things that make a huge difference in a relationship. And these are the same things that we tend to overlook thinking that they are
insignificant. And then we despair and cry, "Save my marriage!" To show your partner that you care, you need not purchase diamonds or throw a party at home. A
single rose or a little help with the chores is enough to make your partner feel loved.
And yes, the famous three little words, "I love you" never fail to create
the desirable effect on your partner!
I made it a point to say "I love you" to my partner whenever he was off to work. And when he returned, I would hug him.
At first, he was surprised. But I knew he felt nice. In fact, we both come closer and our petty quarrels became less and less.
For those who are confused
about whether they should save their marriage or not, I would say, "stop wondering! Get tips on how to save your marriage now!". Sometimes, it's just a loose wire
that needs to be fixed to bring back the spark in your relationship.
